I just saw the new Yayo . Nice cameo Quel. Congrats. That was a good look.

Thanks Man! Funny thing is it aired on 106 & park yesterday (I have yet to see it on TV) but people called out the wood work about it. I didnt think my 4.5 seconds would be noticable.

Okay this is my 3rd contact today from people who have seen me in the video but one of them just so happens to be someone Im interested in. He didnt come off like he was disgusted that I was in a video but when I asked What he thought he said "I guess its cool"

I thought about em prior to doing the video, I thought about how it may make him feel but I also kept in mind that he's not my man nor would he be mailing out a check.

So why do I feel like this was a bad move? I mean it was a decent head shot nothing more but you know how you men are.....

Should I feel away? If I were someone you were interested what would you think?

DIDN'T SEE IT YET.
WHAT'S QUEL DOING IN THERE......DANCING WITH THE HAITIAN OR WHAT?

To me, I wouldn't be upset about it.....He knew you modeled before he started talking with you. Why would he get mad at a head shot! I wouldn't be mad, I'd be somewhat proud like, "look at ol' girl I'm talking to with a very respectable cameo in a major music video." If he is that insecure, you may be too much woman for him to handle. I don't think you have anything to worry about.......

Unless he thinks you can get caught up in the glamour and the glitz of the BIZ. As stated, he knew you modeled before you did the video. Good luck!!!

Sneeks out

Where ya'll at???

Don't sweat it Mami... You look good in the video and you kept your clothes on and your dignity intact. If he really likes you then he'll get over it and make up for being so blase... If not then at least u know he's not worth your time. Any man you are with needs to get used to it that you have drive and ambition.

Quel,

If dude has a problem w/ that then he's gonna keep tripping even harder the further you get in your career.

Quel, give him some good fuckeyhole and he'll be straight.

I could not have my girl in video's but thats just IMO

nope. Would not bother me at all unless it was a video put out by the fine folks at Vivid films or some shit. If you start dating a career driven person that comes with the territory. People that work at 9-5's don't come home and detail every single thing they did like and ' yo at 11:45, I called this insurance broker and then....' I know there's a diff but still the point is, you were who you were before you met dude. People as a rule need to be more confident in self so they can be proud of what the people around them accomplish. Whether or not you told him is really is of no issue unless you are his wife. Which clearly you are not.

Yeah you're right! I just always want to be considered of Wife Status and the fact that a lot of men have these insecurities I tend to worry myself about little things like this.

J,

I don't need to gas women online homie...

LOOK AT WHAT I CAUGHT A 'GUEST' READING!

I LOVE THAT BITCH!!!